it takes time
it takes time to get things right.
you have to fuck it up.
you really do.
there is no point being perfect.
perfect is nonsense.
striving for it is the worst thing you can do.
because it doesn't exist.
only Better exists.
better is aspirational.
better is achievable.
better is measurable.
perfect is none of those things.
it takes time to get Better.
but with each little step, you get a little Better.